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How We Use AI

Exactly where AI helps us — and the lines we won’t cross with your data.

Last updated May 20, 2026


We use AI in a few small, specific places. We’d rather tell you exactly where than leave you guessing.

Where we use it

Where we don’t

Which model

We use Anthropic’s Claude via its API. Anthropic does not train its models on data sent through the API. The only thing we send is the public gift information we’re writing about — never your subscriber details.

The principle

AI should save us time on copywriting, not become a reason to collect more of your data. If a use of AI would require knowing more about you, we don’t do it.